why live your life to the standards of those unlike you? you'll almost certainly end up roping like that. if they pity someone who had a great time travelling on their own.... again: they're just projecting their fears of loneliness onto you
or just enjoy your vacation and if people feel the need to pity you understand that they're just projecting their fears of loneliness onto you... IDK I guess I Just don't know why you think a girlfriend is necessary for a vacation...
"And then you cant tell any normies about that cause they will give you a sad face and say
You went alone?"
why are you seeking their approval... do things that are fun or bring you out of the usual routine. you've never met single people who went on a vacation??? i think you're conflating...